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		<title>What Creativity is Not</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 22:50:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bridget DiCello</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Creativity is not having unique and cool ideas that hit you out of the blue on a regular basis.  It doesn’t necessarily have to do with art in its many forms.  Dictionary.com defines it as “the ability to transcend traditional ideas, rules, patterns, relationships, to create meaningful new ideas, forms, methods, and interpretations. Creativity in &#8230;]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Creativity is not having unique and cool ideas that hit you out of the blue on a regular basis.  It doesn’t necessarily have to do with art in its many forms.  Dictionary.com defines it as “the ability to transcend traditional ideas, rules, patterns, relationships, to create meaningful new ideas, forms, methods, and interpretations.</p>
<p>Creativity in the professional business realm is firmly rooted in the ability to <b><i>connect seemingly unrelated information, thoughts, ideas and strategies</i></b>.  This requires a few key things:</p>
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<li><b><i>Expectations must be communicated.</i></b>  If you ask people to be creative, they can interpret that in many ways.  Provide the framework.  Start with describing the situation – not the specific problem to be solved, but the situation – the destination in general terms, the constraints, the history, and the clear objectives.  To do this, you must make sure you do not solve 90% of the problem in this step.  Leave it open enough to allow for creative thought, while providing a framework with immovable constraints, company values and goals not up for debate.</li>
<li><b><i>Describe the Creative Process.</i></b>  If you ask people for ideas, and then don’t use any, tell them they are wrong or that their idea won’t work, you will stop the creativity from flowing.  “Yes, and…” is a good approach.  Explain that you want to brainstorm 100 ideas in 5 different areas.  Tell them what will happen next and how those ideas will be processed.  Involve others as much as possible in the steps of the process and the implementation.  You can elicit more involvement, especially from those you might think are not creative, by creating a safe and predictable place.</li>
<li><b><i>Ask Questions to clarify.</i></b>  The idea that someone puts forth first is rarely their best idea.  They are testing the waters.  If they are shut down, you will never hear the good idea.  Curiously ask them the How, What, When, Where types of questions to better understand their suggestion.  Most of us cannot clearly communicate what is in our head in 30 seconds or less, especially with a creative or unique idea or concept.</li>
<li><b><i>Connect the Dots.</i></b>  If you enter the creative process without ‘the solution’ in your mind, you have a lot better chance of combining seemingly unrelated ideas.  Group words on paper.  Create different categories.  Find multiple ways that different ideas connect.  Don’t jump too quickly to conclusions.  If you need an immediate solution, then have a meeting with your problem solvers and solve the problem.  If you want to stimulate creativity, give it time to grow and ideas to evolve.</li>
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		<title>My Way &#8211; Why do I have to fight for it?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 May 2013 15:54:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bridget DiCello</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As an owner or leader, do you find yourself defending, selling or fighting for your standards, expectations and values? There is a fine line between demanding and expecting compliance, and creating a team of intelligent people who are thinking and engaged, yet still executing on the vision and plan you have for your department or &#8230;]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As an owner or leader, do you find yourself defending, selling or fighting for your standards, expectations and values? There is a fine line between demanding and expecting compliance, and creating a team of intelligent people who are thinking and engaged, yet still executing on the vision and plan you have for your department or business.</p>
<p><em><strong>Passionately Share Clear Expectations</strong></em></p>
<p><em><strong>Passionately</strong></em></p>
<p>It’s hard to get upset with a boss who is authentically passionate about customers, taking great care of them, and doing business in the right way. You must avoid expecting compliance because it’s the rule or just because you said so. Your team members must understand why it’s important, but not be allowed the liberty to grill you with questions about every plan, process or method you implement.</p>
<p><em><strong>Share</strong></em></p>
<p>So often expectations are in a leader’s head, but are not shared, not shared often enough, or not shared in a way that others really understand them. Team members need to engage &#8211; think about, talk about, report on and execute on their tasks, and why they are important to your customers and company values. And they need to hear your expectations over and over in a variety of different ways &#8211; and see those values in what you do and how you spend your time.</p>
<p><em><strong>Clear</strong></em></p>
<p>The distance from your head to your mouth is very long, and you may not be as clear as you think you are, and as you need to be. Expectations fall prey to assumptions, assumed agreement, what they think you really mean, and what they think is really best for you and the business. If you leave ambiguity, others will do what they think best, sometimes what is easiest and what enables them to stay in their comfort zone.</p>
<p><em><strong>Expectations</strong></em></p>
<p>Without micromanaging, what you expect must be communicated, starting with job descriptions, processes/procedures and evaluations, and continuing with ongoing coaching conversations and accountability through measuring metrics and regular reporting. Answering the question, “What do you want me to do?” can be difficult and is more often communicated as what you don’t want someone to do. What do I do when I don’t have what I need? Yell at who was supposed to give it to me? Make do without? Go find it myself? What is the proper protocol?</p>
<p><em><strong>Business is not a democracy!</strong></em></p>
<p>The owner’s or leader’s vision is incredibly important. It is this individual vision that makes the business successful &#8211; generic businesses that do it like everyone else don’t last. If a leader envisions a very collaborative culture, that’s fine and will work if that is what they passionately believe in, but that’s not the only or best answer in every situation.</p>
<p>The employees’ role is to execute the vision, and use their expertise, wisdom, knowledge and intelligence to execute well and share insights and ideas of how to do that better &#8211; not to disagree with the vision and fight it every step of the way.</p>
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